0 approaches, but breakthrough from reading article

Tried doing the state, power of now...but once in the club....just went calm.i was waiting for the state to kick in, but end up getting more nervous than before. i dont know if getting in state is for me.didnt get mad,or berate myself, cause i was using my mind. my mind is not use to this. u r not ur mind. doubt if i will use the state again. read something very interesting....

"Its massive action, pain, reflection, and making adjustments from what you learn infeild. I feel no pity for you because you have not taken the first step seriously. Looking for someone to give you permission to challenge your self to step up is absolutely weak. You don't need anyone to give you the ok to man the fuck up. You choose, you say what ever it takes, you make it happen and you put in the time. 
Going out more often, interacting with women more, will force you through the pain of meeting girls you like and then having them viciously reject you for the weakenesses in your personality.  This forces you to KILL those weaknesses and allow parts of yourself to DIE.  The game, then, is a combination of a lot of FUN of going out, and then PAIN of having amazing women who you feel strong emotions for reject you for idiot-douchebags who have the whole "relate as a man to a woman" thing down better than you do.
She is still seeing from you -- little bitchboy weaknesses that you've gotta weed out and exchange for pure self amused sexual don't give a fuck attitude -- and this is only going to come with a lot MORE interaction with women."